You want to be happy every time, everywhere, without any hurdles, struggles, issues and what not.
Have you imagined life all with happiness and success only, not a single bit of stress and sorrow?
Life is like a series of events over time what you had gone through in past, what you are going through in present and what you will go through in future. Now, you need to understand, we try for different things in life depending on age and circumstances.
The first pain of human life - Crying of the new born baby after birth is considered to be good as doctor and mother gets confirmed that baby is healthy and alive. After struggling for 9 months the happiness in the mother's eyes can be seen in crying sound of new born baby.
So, our first pain was meaningful.
In childhood , we need mom's attention, food, love, care, toys,friends to play with. We fall sometimes and learn to stand again, we quarrel with friends and know how to judge good or bad friends, how to react well, how to take care of good friends. So, pain teaches us well to evolve further in life.
In teenage, we do mistakes in studies,relationships,discriminating between good and bad and as a consequence we get stuck in tough circumstances. If these situations will not be harsh, we can never be matured in life in terms of career,love and ethical values.
In adulthood, we start to work and earn money, sometimes we invest in very risky things, sometimes waste money on unnecessary things causing financial stress and mental pain.Although situation becomes harsh but we evolve as a smart decision maker in terms of family finances.
Not only limited to this, we don't want our kids to suffer the struggles and associated pain when we become parents and this is only possible because we have already faced the consequences of wrong doings.
Life is not the path of roses always,it has happiness, sorrow,pain,struggles etc as part of its ingredients.The normal tendency of human is to learn from mistakes and get evolved as better person every time. So, from next time, whenever you face pain and hardship, understand the root cause of the same,eliminate its effect slowly and try to unfold our best qualities.